M for Marriage

Marriage is a big deal in India. Parents start saving money for marriages as soon as daughters are born. The investment in gold goes up and so does the provident fund savings as the government also lets you dilute your savings for daughter’s wedding. Looking for good alliances, matching profiles, thinking on what scale will be the … More M for Marriage

L for Leadership

I am sure you must have heard that people don’t leave their jobs, they leave their bosses. And that is the reason being a good leader matters, which mind you, is not an easy task. If the team is successful in driving results, the leader is successful. If not, it’s not the team who fails but … More L for Leadership

K for KSBKBT

For those who are wondering what is that title – I should begin by sharing that KSBKBT was a famous Indian telly show, Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi (Because the MIL was also once a DIL). No, I am not going to talk about the show today but I do intend to write about the much … More K for KSBKBT

J for Judge

What was she wearing today?  She is clever, knows how to get things done. I’m not like her.  What’s with her? No kids, no husband, a relaxed life and can party any time she wants. She is not like us with so many responsibilities. Do these sentences remind you of something? Most women talk about … More J for Judge

H for Honor Killing

If you thought honor killings happen only in India, you are not right. If you think, only women are victims, then also you are not right.  I was in double minds when I was picking the topic for letter H. While I wanted to go with something positive like Handling Emotions, my heart kept going … More H for Honor Killing

G for Glass Ceiling

If you think glass ceiling is only gender specific, you are not right. If you think in present times men and women are getting equal opportunities to be on top of the corporate ladder, you are again not right. I do not believe in any regulatory guidelines that require presence of a woman in the board … More G for Glass Ceiling

F for Female Foeticide

In a country where Maa Durga and Maa Saraswati are worshiped and where brave soldiers sacrifice their lives protecting their (mother)land, it’s hard to understand the rationale behind female foeticide. Yes, the plain blunt answer is Patriarchy but my question is why? Why do we forget that if there was no woman, there would be … More F for Female Foeticide

E for Experiment

No, I am not talking about the chemistry lab experiments that can turn solutions pink when you mix them for 10 seconds or purple for 15 seconds. I am talking about those little experiments we do or can do to make our life more meaningful. You got it right! Not successful or extraordinary but just … More E for Experiment